Bye-bye loneliness

August 2nd, 2012 at 3:44 pm.

We’re nearly at the weekend again. For today I have some wisdom by Patricia Fry for you.

“An intimate relationship does not banish loneliness. Only when we are comfortable with who we are can we truly function independently in a healthy way, can we truly function within a relationship. Two halves do not make a whole when it comes to a healthy relationship: it takes two wholes.” — Patricia Fry

She’s a wise woman, that Patricia Fry. I spent such a long time feeling ill at ease if I would happen to be alone. But over the past couple of years I’ve grown more and more happy with my own company. I even crave some me-space every day. All this however doesn’t mean that I don’t feel lonely from time to time.

That of course leaves the question: what does banish loneliness? And I wouldn’t be myself if I wouldn’t share my own little list with you:

  • a great book that totally sucks you into the story
  • a good (or so bad that it’s good) movie or tv-series
  • a cup of tea – preferably with some thyme honey but we’re not picky or anything
  • a relaxing bath – think scented bubbles, candles, some music or the aforementioned great book
  • painting – I’m rather partial towards acrylic paint but if you prefer oil or pencils or whatever you like

And if none of the above work then please do pick up your phone and call your friends. After all you’re rather fab so I’m sure they would love to hang out with you.

Have a lovely day!

2 cups of tea ( Reply )

  1. Nina
    Aug 02, 2012 @ 3:51 pm

    Very sweet posting…
    Thank you

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  2. Amber Rose
    Aug 06, 2012 @ 12:55 am

    This is such a fantastic quote Karen, I keep trying to remember it. I’m rubbish with relationships, I can never find the balance. Either my studies, job or my relationship suffers!

    I’d do well to learn to function as a whole first!

    My way to battle loneliness is definitely to get lost in a book. Gossip Girl in the background and a good cup of Earl Grey with honey. Perrrfect.

    Amber xo

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